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Ellen Blum Barish

Ellen Blum Barish
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Coaching

I never set out to teach or coach writing.

Truth is, it’s a miracle that I even became a writer. In middle school, test scores showed that I struggled with reading comprehension. A teacher-parent huddle sent me to work with a tutor.

At 13, with bad teeth and stringy hair, there was already plenty for me to be embarrassed about, but I was mortified because I wanted to think of myself as a smart girl. And smart girls didn’t need to be tutored.

But she turned out to be an amiable woman who taught me to identify the unique way I absorbed information and how to organize it into words. She guided me in honoring my individual learning process, gently but firmly. Persistently, but patiently.

I was never a stellar student in high school but by the time I got to college and could take subjects that interested me – mostly literature, sociology and philosophy – I fared much better. I had found my thing and that thing was reading and writing, the very things I struggled with as a middle-schooler.

Years into a journalism and publishing career, a director of religious education whom I greatly respected asked me to teach. I remember saying no the first time she asked. Teach? Me? The B student who needed tutoring? You’ve got to be kidding. A year later, she asked again. She was serious and moved by her faith in me, so I gave it a go. And I liked it. The students and I were both learning. A lot. 

Not long after that, one of my former journalism professors asked me to coach a few students. A year later, I was hired to teach my first university course.

As a writing instructor for almost twenty years now, I’ve only recently become aware that my teaching approach is borne out of those one-to-one sessions with that tutor. We process information differently. Some of us like to hear ourselves speak in the circle. Some of us would rather listen. Some of us read it and get it right there on the spot. Some of us need to read it over many times, away from the classroom, on our own.

Though I still love to teach groups – the energy in a circle of people is electric and empowering  – working with people individually speaks to my heart. It can be as simple as an amiable woman gently pulling and tugging at you while simultaneously holding a mirror so you can see what’s inside.

Which, I now recognize, is what I strive for when I work with people one to one.

How I Can Help

I can help you get started on a project that has your heart or support you in revision. I can help keep you moving to complete it for yourself, for publication, for personal discovery, for legacy or simply for the joy of finishing. We can do this work in person or online at your own pace and schedule.
Writers tell me I make the process fun and full of self discovery.
Schedule a free consultation by emailing me.

Personal Essays

I work with people who haven’t written anything since high school or college, those who want to try personal narrative for the first time, writers interested in submitting work for publication or just wanting to hone their craft. People whom I have coached or whose essays I have reviewed have seen their work published in national and local consumer magazines, literary publications and public radio.

Memoir

I’m in the process of completing a memoir that I have been working on for several years. But I got the first draft down onto the page in twelve months which was, by far, the very hardest part. It took commitment and tenacity but I found some incredibly helpful organizational supports along the way. Ask me about how I can help you do the same no matter where you are in the process.

Nonfiction Manuscripts

Many writers whose manuscripts I have reviewed ultimately became published books. Some topics have included conscious parenting, reiki and recovering from an eating disorder. I have also edited books on diabetes and teaching theatre. I am working with a psychotherapist who is writing a book about managing anxiety, a daughter putting together her father’s historical military memoir and a number of people wanting to pull their professional work together for a LinkedIn article, White Paper or Ted talk.

A Special Invitation for Social Workers & Therapists

You understand the power of stories because you listen to them in greater numbers and in a deeper way than almost any other professional. But what would it feel like to experience this for yourself?  

To write a story from your life for the first time –  for your family, readers or an audience – you need guidance; a strong partner. Someone who understands the therapist’s neutrality in the office but encourages the release of feeling on the page.

am that partner. As a lifelong student of the mind  – who has personally benefitted from the therapeutic process and has decades of experience in writing about the personal – I can guide you on the journey to becoming a writer.  

We can do this work together, in person or online, at your own pace and schedule. To schedule a free consultation, email me at ellen@ellenblumbarish.com.

“Working with Ellen has been a powerful experience. Her precise and thoughtful insights have prompted me to reflect on my work, my life, and the therapy process in an entirely new way. She artfully helps me gain clarity on my ideas and take risks in my writing I never could have imagined. Her gentle guidance and support have kept me going even when I was mired in self-doubt. As a result, I’ve stretched and grown both personally and professionally.”
— Kate Engler, LMFT, LPC